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Tuesday, January 15, 2008

From Dad

When I spoke with Paula yesterday morning, I was so happy that we finally arrived at the point where we did not have to ask the orphanage's permission to spend time with our son. Paula shared with me that she asked Chris to see the contents of the duffel bag that Chris left the orphanage with. He told her that there was nothing in it. Most parents of boys this age know that a boy answers a question with "nothing" when he does not want to answer the question. In this case, there really was nothing in the bag... except a tie and a small stuffed animal. What remained, from all he ever owned, was 2 items that were not stolen from him. Am I bitter? No. What I am is grateful that this boy will never again be treated in this manner again as long as he resides under the roof God has given our family. For the first time, he will experience dignity.

We did not come to Ukraine to rescue a boy named Andrey. We came to bring our son home. A rescue is an event that, after it happens, life one day resumes again at normal. Adoption changes everything for everyone involved. And this is the message of the Gospel. Christ did not just rescue us. He changed us. He changed our names. That change should make every day of our lives different than they would have been in the ordinary. That new name gives us privileges that we never before had. A new life.

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Whew! That one brought me to tears. What a reminder to truly live the gospel I say I believe.

Hall family said...

Your words so beautifully express the amazing experience and we are thankful that this boy has a home where he can experience the love of Christ in amazing ways...God has awesome plans for Chris. What a joy. Congrats and we will be waiting at the airport, Paula and Chris!!!! Love, Hall family

Smith Family ~ "Party of Six" said...

Ande... Thank you so much for this post! It is exactly what we need at the zero hour to really wrap our hearts around!

Got the pkg. for Paula and will see her soon.

The Smiths,
Here and There ;)

Debra said...

Thank you for sharing your journey in such an honest and transparent way.

Brockfamily said...

Hey Paula,
You are finishing strong. We are all so proud of you and happy for Chris. There is no way he can comprehend the magnitude of all God is blessing him with in your family..
Love, Joan

What we are about... said...

Hey Underwood gang,
This is the Williams from MS!! We have been keeping up daily, but having trouble leaving a post. Please know we are so happy for you all and can't wait to meet the newest Underwood. Love you guys so much! Jan Williams